DON’T ALLOW YOUR LIFE TO BE CONTROLLED
Today you have to let go of your past. Forgive others who have harmed you. Be grateful for what you have and accept your current life. Be open to opportunities that invites even brighter future. Instead of telling yourself what you should’ve, could’ve, would’ve done…begin to focus on what you will do. And focus on how you will accomplish goals and tasks by taking actions in faith, equivalently declaring your productivity and success.
Many people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances. Living at the mercy of what happened to them and at the mercy of other people. They dont live in the present, because their past is stuck in their head. Therefore, if you want to live a great life, don’t allow yourself to be controlled by any of these 4 things.
“The past is in your head, The future is in your hand!” Therefore, don’t allow your past to control your present or your future life. Whatever happened in the past you must let it go and leave the pain of your past behind so it doesn’t ruin your future life. Leave the darkness of the past behind, so it doesn’t block the light of your bright future. Your past is gone. Whatever happened; whether unjust, cruel, harsh…whatever the case is, reliving the events will never do you anything good. The only way to win is if you let it go and move forward. However, if you live in hate they win and if you live in the victim story they win.
If you want to win you must focus on building your future starting right now. Release that weight from your back so you can be free. Don’t allow events of the past to ruin this perfect moment. The moment which you need to enjoy.
Change the changeable. Accept the unchangeable. And remove yourself from unacceptable. Money is what controls the majority of people on the planet. This does not mean you shouldn’t want abundance. It doesn’t mean money is evil. You can do great things with money, including helping others who really need any one’s help. What I mean is don’t allow your decision to be controlled by money while losing your loved ones.
“Don’t love money, instead make the money love you!” Any time you follow your intuition and truly give your soul then the money will come. And it will come in far greater amounts than if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money. So, challenge yourself to live the life you want to live. Free from being controlled by anything. Find your freedom and live fully!
OPINIONS & JUDGEMENTS
You have to love yourself because no amount of love from others is sufficient to fill the yearning that your soul requires from you. -Dodinsky. Don’t allow other people’s opinions and judgements to control the direction of your life. The need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you don’t want to travel.
Build your self-esteim and believe in yourself. Before you do anything ask yourself: Am I doing this because I want to do it or because of my fear of judgment to others opinions if I don’t. You were born unique for a reason; to stand out, appreciated and loved for who you are. Don’t turn your lights so you fit into the dull background of other people’s life. Shine bright as you are. Those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you. Worrying about something that may never happen is like paying interest on money you may never borrow. It is not the load that breaks you down, it is the way you carry it. –Lena Horne.
If you are not treated with the love and respect you deserve, check your “price tag.” Perhaps you have marked yourself down. Its you that determines your worth by what you accept. Get off the “clearance rack” and get behind the glass case where valuables are kept. Bottom lime, value yourself more.
YOUR LIMITED BELIEFS
Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It’s not your parents, your past relationship, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choices you make-Period.
Do not allow your life to be controlled by your own limited beliefs. They beliefs may be unconscious limitations that have been conditioned from a young age and throughout your entire life by listening to those around you who never reached for their own dream. Notice your own limited believe and try to change it. There is nothing you cannot do or you cannot have, and no one you cannot become if you believe in yourself.
When you change your believe from limited to unlimited your potential is unlimited. Imaging what you could achieve if you lived your life as though anything is possible and miracles are a standard requirement of every day. As the saying goes, “When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm.” When you have nothing inside holding you back there is nothing outside that can hold you back either. Your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset, the instant you decide to see everything as a gift. When you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse, your life will be astonished.
Everything in life is temporary. So if things are going good, enjoy it because it won’t last forever. And if things are going bad, don’t worry. It can’t last forever either. Remember…you have the power to say, this is not how my story will end.
You have to get so sure in who you are, that no one’s opinion, rejection, or bad behavior can rock you. The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be. –Ralph Waldo Emerson.